Perhaps this is his way of protecting them and himself. He never seems to move beyond this. You cannot read without Last Things feeling sad. However, Moss shares an important story with us, one of her resilience as she struggles to be the glue that keeps her family together during extremely hard times. You cannot walk away with taking something from her story. The title alone sheds insight that through the loss of much, including many last things, this author held on to her love of the man she married while nurturing her sons, maintaining a family unit.
View all 15 comments. Nov 07, Elyse Walters rated it it was amazing. I wanted to reach out and hug the author The story and illustrations - together - create so much intimacy. Even when Marissa would swim early mornings - in the dark - with the master swim program - I felt like I was in that pool with her listening to her thoughts. Life goes on How about everyone understanding a disease -- starting from ground zero I wanted to tell Marissa how moved I am! This book touched me deeply - and for those who have any doubts about the impact of a graphic Book View all 11 comments.
Sep 04, Celia rated it it was amazing Shelves: , read , book-shelf , elyse , ten-year-challenge. Marissa Moss is a rock. She has written this book and illustrated it too. The book commemorates her family's journey as they watch her husband, Harvey Stahl, suffer and succumb to the horrible disease ALS. There are many themes in this book: connection, separation and the search for re-connection after a loss.
From the back cover: Last things sneak up on you, slip away, unnoticed, unmarked We share a lot of "lasts" a Marissa Moss is a rock. We share a lot of "lasts" and don't even know it. Although frequently painful to read, it is poignant and honest and worth the time. View all 6 comments. Apr 13, Rebecca rated it really liked it Shelves: read-via-edelweiss , illness-and-death , graphic-novels , bereavement-memoirs.
ALS is always a devastating diagnosis, but Harvey had the particularly severe bulbar variety, and his lungs were quick to succumb. His battery-powered ventilator led to many scares — one time Moss had to plug him into the wall at a gas station and rush home for a spare battery — and he also underwent an emergency tracheotomy surgery. This is a very emotionally draining read.
Harvey pushed everyone away and focused on finishing his book and returning to his academic duties. He refused to accept his limitations and resisted necessary medical interventions. Meanwhile, Moss struggled with the unwanted role of caregiver while trying not to neglect her children and her own career.
Most of the time it was pasta for dinner every night. The former is probably falsely optimistic, while the latter is unpleasantly cynical. Moss gets the tone just right, though. I can see this being especially helpful to older teens with a terminally ill parent. Releases May 1st.
View 1 comment. Jan 11, Janet rated it really liked it Shelves: one-day-reads , arc. I sat down on the couch in my office to read a few pages of this to get a feel for it, and I didn't get up until I'd finished it in its entirety. Marissa Moss's memoir is graphic in more than one way: yes, it's a story told through both text and pictures, but it's also visceral and heart-wrenching. Though the book focuses on ALS, I think that anyone who has seen firsthand how a chronic, debilitating illness affects a loved one and the relationship with that loved one will appreciate Moss's raw honesty.
Aug 29, Glen rated it really liked it Shelves: biography , firstreads , graphic-novels.
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I won this book in a goodreads drawing. An almost unbearably sad graphic memoir about a woman whose husband is dying of Lou Gehrig's disease. It reminds of the comic strip For Better or For Worse, only without the dog. Feb 01, Melinda rated it really liked it Shelves: san-francisco-bay-area , graphic-novel , memoir , jewish. One year to digest the enormity of the diagnosis and another year to say goodbye. But it didn't unfold that way.alexacmobil.com/components/hymohelep/rusec-come-localizzare-un.php
Instead, Harvey's condition deteriorated even more rapidly than expected. He was soon unable to breathe without a respirator. In this black-and-white graphic memoir, Moss tells the devastating story of her husband's illness and death. She thought they would grow closer, that When Marissa Moss's husband, Harvey, was diagnosed with ALS, they were told they would have two years together.
She thought they would grow closer, that there would be meaningful moments of kindness between Harvey and her, Harvey and their three sons. There was no beauty in this loss. It was not a "good death. It's a brutal read, deeply emotional but not sentimental, and gripping from the beginning to the end. Dec 19, Maggie Gordon rated it really liked it Shelves: all-my-tears , memoir , graphic-novels , all-the-feels.
Welp, there went my feels, shattering into a million pieces. This graphic novel chronicles the pain and trauma the family goes through as Harvey quickly becomes ill and changes. It's a heartbreaking book that refuses to put a positive spin on suffering. Moss just tells us what it is like to go through such a rending experience, and it hurts. Oh does it hurt. Last Things is a beautiful, thoughtful, and utterly destroy Welp, there went my feels, shattering into a million pieces.
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Last Things is a beautiful, thoughtful, and utterly destroying book to read, but one that I think offers a very important message. Watching a loved one die, particularly when they are young, is hard.
It eats at you. Caretaking is a difficult, often thankless job. You will feel alone and overwhelmed. It will suck. But you can survive. It will never be okay, but it will be something you can live through. Oct 29, Constance rated it really liked it.
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I dare you to read this and not want to hug this woman as your tears fall on her small strong shoulders. Nov 27, Rita rated it really liked it. First graphic book I've read, they don't appeal to me much.
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As was the story. Read it in one sitting Feb 09, Megan Bell rated it it was amazing Shelves: Jan 22, Matthew Noe rated it it was amazing. I'm writing this short review immediately, with wetness still in my eyes because I want the rawness to bleed into it. I wish I could say I feel raw because of Marissa's struggle or even that of the kids, but that's only part of it. What truly hit me was Harvey's loss of empathy for those sround him. It scares me. It scares me because it reminds me of how I often was when my chronic pain was so bad I was on several opioids at once.